DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend has dumped me. She says she’s not happy, is lost and needs to find herself.
We had been together for just over a year and went to New York to celebrate our first anniversary.
That was brilliant but when we got home, she said it was all over.
I am not going to message her because she knows where I am if she wants me.
But right now I feel in limbo. We are both 24.
Could the issue really be that she misses her single life?
DEIDRE SAYS: You have been left reeling but your girlfriend may have been feeling unhappy for a while.
Whatever she says about feeling “lost”, she clearly doesn’t feel you can be central to her life, at least not for now.
Give her space but get out with your friends and network again.
Set a time limit of, say, three months and accept you need to move on if she is not interested in getting back with you by then.
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