DEAR DEIDRE: DESPITE being in a loving relationship, an online male friend keeps sending me inappropriate messages.
I met him before I got together with my boyfriend. We are both 21 and the other guy is 22.
His sexual comments did not bother me when I was single but now I just want to be friends.
Whenever I try to have a normal conversation with him, he always makes it sexual. I always ignore his advances but I am worried my boyfriend will take it the wrong way if he sees our messages.
DEIDRE SAYS: He’s not hearing you and you are going to have to be prepared to end the friendship if he doesn’t. Otherwise, it would look to your boyfriend as if you are accepting, if not encouraging, his advances.
Spell it out firmly there will be no more contact unless he stops the sexual chat.
If he ignores you this time, block him.
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